How to Look at Yourself and Others
It is reported that Bakr b. ?Abdill?h Al-Muzan? – All?h have mercy on him – said:
When you see someone older than you, say: he has preceded me in ?m?n and righteous actions so he is better than me; and when you see someone younger than you, say: I have preceded him in sinning and disobedience so he is better than me. And when you see your brothers honouring and revering you, say: this is a virtue they have attained; and when you see them falling short (in their treatment of you) say: this is [because of] a sin I committed.
Ibn Al-Jawz?, ?ifatu Al-?afwah, article 505: Bakr b. ?Abdill?h Al-Muzan?.
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