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Default She says: “I have found a man I want to marry” ? Shaykh ‘Abdul-Qaadir Al-Junayd

Found me a Man!
Shaykh ‘Abdul-Qaadir Al-Junayd

Question:
There is a problem here in America, O Shaykh, at times a woman from the Muslim women meets a man who is in prison; she begins to deal with him, she visits him, and talks to him on the phone. After love has developed between her and him, she calls the Masjid and says to the Imaam, for example: “I have found a man I want to marry.” And sometimes the man will remain in prison for a long time. So what is your statement and what is your advice about this, O Shaykh, may Allaah bless you?
Answer:
Firstly, it is not permissible for a Muslim woman to talk to a Kaafir man or Muslim man except if there is a need. If she does talk to him (due to a need) then she talks to him without submissiveness and softness in speech.
Allaah the Majestic and High has forbidden them from that, He said:
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“Then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery, etc.) should be moved with desire.” (Al-Ahzaab 33:32)
There is no doubt that the speech that is between the male and female Muslim; or between (her and) the foreign man whether he be a Muslim or a Kaafir; that speech with is connected to the affairs of marriage and affairs of love and other than it, all of this is from the soft speech from which Allaah the Glorified and Exalted has prohibited the believing women. Because it makes her submissive and calls her to that which Allaah, the Glorified and Exalted, has prohibited; and (allows for the man) to look at her with the forbidden look. The point is that Allaah has said to all the Muslim women:
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“Then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery, etc.) should be moved with desire, but speak in an honorable manner.” (Al-Ahzaab 33:32)
Question posed and translated by: Raha ibn Donald Batts
18 Rajab 1433/June 9, 2012
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